“If you are a mom of an infant, chances are that you will be celebrating your first Mother’s Day this Sunday. Congratulations!  This is a big turning point in a recognition of this new definition of yourself.”

If you are a mom of an infant, chances are that you will be celebrating your first Mother’s Day this Sunday. Congratulations! This is a big turning point in recognition of this new definition of yourself. You’re a mother now! This day celebrates this new role. As new moms, we are still carving out this new definition of ourselves, diaper change by diaper change and night feeding by night feeding. But the truth is, there is a fundamental change in how we perceive the world, as the world now holds this precious creature entrusted to you. This can be a beautiful yet sometimes it may feel forced and overhyped. 

It is profound, too often we put too much expectation on this day and what it means. In many ways, it is just another Sunday, marketed by greeting card companies to be a day to recognize mom. Instead of waiting to see what your husband or partner will do to recognize this most important day – which he will almost certainly, somehow, fall short –  find small ways to celebrate yourself that are not dependent on anything store-bought or reserved weeks in advance.

Plan something that is meaningful and celebratory to you, for you. This may mean going out for the requisite Sunday Brunch, but chances are the restaurants will be overbooked and overpriced and filled with impatient whining kids and moms with forced smiles trying to enjoy their “special day.” Choose to celebrate with a hike or walk on the beach. Order take-in and watch an old movie together. Forgo the crowds and just relax. Focus on all you are grateful for and recognize that flowers and candy are always nice, but feeling recognized and loved and celebrated are what it’s all about. In other words, let your partner off the hook from expectations and just be together.

We women are chameleons by nature. We adapt to new circumstances with incredible ease. As mothers we mold into a new definition of ourselves and the world around us. We are the ultimate shape shifting super beings! Celebrate how awesome it is to have this little person and people in your circle who wnt to celebrate you.

Happy Mother’s Day!


Author: Libby Hudson Lydecker

Libby Hudson Lydecker is a mother of two, a Kundalini Yoga teacher with over a decade of experience, a screenwriter and a Real Mom Daily partner. Libby Serves as the Lifestyle and Wellness Editor for RMD. As Lifestyle and Wellness Editor, Libby brings her wisdom of Kundalini Yoga and holistic life hacks to her articles as well as real world solutions through yoga techniques in her Mindful Mama video series created at RMD. Libby balances her time between her family, teaching Kundalini yoga to women and children, leading women’s yoga retreats in beautiful destinations around the country, writing screenplays and publishing articles for Real Mom Daily. Her ability to balance all of this comes from her strong yoga practice and a stronger sense of humor. Libby relates to Gloria Steinem’s quote, “Writing is the only thing that, when I do it, I don’t feel I should be doing something else.” As well as Yogi Bhajan’s quote, “I don’t believe in miracles, I rely on them.” Libby believes that Real Mom Daily is a forum for women to communicate consciously with kindness, real life perspectives and humor. RMD provides a supportive space for moms to feel understood and share their experiences. “When women gather together in consciousness, we can change the world.” View all posts by Libby Hudson Lydecker

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